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Having a Blue Christmas?

Having a Blue Christmas?

Tips for the newly divorced or separated on how to survive the first Christmas. The first Christmas after divorce or separation can not only be tough, but for some, absolutely gruelling. The same may apply for the first Christmas that your children spend with your ex...

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Women losing out on pensions on divorce

Women losing out on pensions on divorce

There were some rather shocking headlines last week regarding women losing out on pensions when they divorce. This was all sparked by an Age UK report. The report stated that is should be "the norm" for private pensions to be considered as part of the divorce process...

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Do you have enough?

Do you have enough?

A recent report by Fidelity entitled “Financial Power of Women” highlighted the fact that although many women saved on a regular basis, they were more comfortable putting their money into cash rather than investing in the stock market. Cash savings are very important,...

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PowerWomen Awards

PowerWomen Awards

2018 is the 6th year Citywealth will run the Power Women awards highlighting female leaders, and recognising individuals who maximise the potential of women in wealth. Last year I was delighted to win the Gold Award for Entrepreneurial Woman of the Year. I have also...

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Would you turn away a cash sum of £300,000?

Would you turn away a cash sum of £300,000?

The annual Scottish Widows Women and Retirement Report, now in its 13th year was published in November. A copy of the report is available here. But be warned, it doesn’t make good reading. The survey highlights that on average, women have savings pots half the value...

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Uncoupling your finances

Uncoupling your finances

If you and your partner have been together for some time, separating your finances is not necessarily going to be easy. However, it is absolutely vital that you can reach a financial settlement that is suitable for both parties. This is essential to the emotional...

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Don’t ignore the pension

Don’t ignore the pension

Data on UK divorces, released this week by the Office of National Statistics, announced that that the average age at divorce is continuing to rise; for 30 years, from 1985-2015, the average age at divorce has increased by over eight years.  The average age at divorce...

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Oh, another lovely award…

Oh, another lovely award…

A few months ago I was delighted to attend a very swanky awards ceremony and be the winner of CityWealth’s Power Woman of The Year Award as Entrepreneurial Woman of The Year. Last week I attended the inaugural awards ceremony from Women in Finance, held at Grosvenor...

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Divorce at over-60

Divorce at over-60

Over 60 and facing separation? You’re not alone. Later life divorce is definitely on the increase – figures from the International Longevity Centre, a respected research organisation, show that between 1990 and 2012 the number of men and women over the age of 60 going...

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Do you take responsibility for your finances?

Do you take responsibility for your finances?

As the founder of Wealth for Women, it wouldn’t surprise anyone to hear that most of my clients are female. Typically, they are going through, or have just been through, divorce. In almost every case, the husband has had full responsibility for looking after the joint...

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Are we there yet?

Are we there yet?

We all remember those time as children when we were on a car journey and very excited to get to our final destination. Within a very short time of starting out we were frequently asking “Are we there yet?”. Despite being told “no” and despite the annoyance of our...

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And the winner is …

And the winner is …

At last week’s Citywealth Powerwomen awards I was delighted to receive the Entrepreneurial Woman of the Year award, having been shortlisted from over 100 other nominees. It was a total delight to be recognised for the difference I’m making in my client’s life by...

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Ten top tips for divorce

Ten top tips for divorce

Everyone wonders what life would be like without enough money. For people facing up to the reality of divorce or the dissolution of a civil partnership, understanding how the finances will work when they are on their own can feel like one of the biggest worries of...

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Improving your state pension entitlement

Improving your state pension entitlement

  Prior to 6th April 2016 if a couple were going through divorce, or dissolution of a civil partnership it was possible to substitute the National Insurance (NI) record from a former spouse/civil partner if they had a better NI record. Therefore, potentially a...

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I know nothing about the wine list!

I know nothing about the wine list!

Let me be totally honest with you, I am a total dunce when it comes to wine; and I laugh at the number of times I have bluffed my way through a business lunch or simply nodded in approval when I've been lunching with a wine buff. To me, a glass of "plonk" tastes...

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Do I need to use a solicitor for my divorce?

Do I need to use a solicitor for my divorce?

For anyone thinking of agreeing a financial settlement with their spouse and feel it’s not necessary to get legal advice, please read on……….. The case of Vince v Wyatt highlights the importance of ensuring that financial arrangements are incorporated into a Court...

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How rich are you?

How rich are you?

I had a meeting with a lovely client recently. Let’s call her Janet. Janet and her husband (let’s call him James) had received a large cash sum following the sale of their business. They needed advice as to how best to invest their money. However, what they needed...

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Are you going to run out of money?

Are you going to run out of money?

You probably have an idea of how much you have saved in your pension plans and investment accounts. But do you know whether this is enough money to last you for your lifetime and enable you to do all the things you’d love to do. "Fingers crossed it all works out OK"...

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Is seeing your IFA like going to the dentist?

Is seeing your IFA like going to the dentist?

There’s not many things in life that really scare me. It’s not because I think I'm particularly rufty-tufty. I just tend to be up for trying most things, without necessarily realising just how scary they will be. (White water rafting was a particular example!). Then...

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Why I’m happy to be sexist!

Why I’m happy to be sexist!

Trading as Wealth for Women and being the author of “The Wealthy Woman: A Man is Not a Financial Plan”, tends to split reaction into two camps. Some women (and men) have found it sexist and patronising. One comment left on my Facebook post recently offering a free...

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Don’t spend it all on shoes and handbags!

Don’t spend it all on shoes and handbags!

I've recently worked with a lovely lady to do her financial plan- let’s call her Gillian. What she told me in our first phone call absolutely astounded me. It’s not often I'm lost for words, but I was on this occasion. Gillian had savings in her bank account and in...

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No, I don’t want to have a meeting with you!

No, I don’t want to have a meeting with you!

As an independent financial adviser specialising in advice to women, I am often telephoned by a female who asks “Can we have a meeting?” “Can you help me with my finances?” The short answer that I give is “no”. But before you think I'm horribly rude…. there’s as a...

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Number one IFA!

Number one IFA!

I’m delighted to have been advised by VouchedFor that I am currently the number one IFA in Esher on the reviews website VouchedFor.co.uk. To see the listings for yourself, take a look at VouchedFor's list of IFAs in Esher. When you search for an IFA on VouchedFor, the...

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7 mistakes women make when getting divorced ...and how to avoid them

I was lost in a minefield of options, and rather ignorant of how the financial world works. Mary was invaluable with advice on what to do, explaining things, so that I understood fully what would happen to my money and investments. Mary was understanding and did not make me feel inadequate needing help. I now feel secure and my mind is put at rest with Mary’s expertise

– Ruth Dellow

Mary listened to what I wanted. I did not once feel overwhelmed with financial jargon or pressurised to go in a direction I did not want to. Mary has high integrity and strives to do her best for her clients because she actually cares about them.

– Caroline Crowhurst

Mary’s advice is so down to earth and straight forward that I feel I am at last getting to grips with my finances. She explains everything without technical jargon and I always know I can ask any question without feeling it’s a foolish question. Her service is absolutely amazing.

– Dr Diane Keith